I need help with some big decisions and everytime I ask for help the answer is always "when you decide" "when you feel the time is right" but that does not help me at all.
The question I am asking is "When should we lay my baby girl to rest"
I am in two minds about it because I know that I'm not ready to do it yet but also I know that she is waiting at the hospital for me to make a decision how can I just leave her there like that what kind of mother am I.
I would love to bring her home for a bit to be with us but she isn't cremated and I don't know how to ask if she can be and if it is ok to bring her home. I feel like she is in limbo at the hospital like she isn't here but she is, I just don't know what to do I need answers....
Amanda
Strength and my "Why"
10 years ago
I hate to say it, but it's a decision both you and hubby will have to reach..
ReplyDeleteIs there someone you can get to call the hosptial to ask about being cremated if thats what you want. Or perhaps they can call the funeral home and find out what the process would be to get this done for you. Could your mum maybe call for you??
You are caring and amazing mum. I am sure Emily knows this. It's hard to make a decision especially when its for you child. You will get there. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself..
lots of love to you xxxxx